The final step to “Money Rules” is actually the most important from my view. It encapsulates the idea of why you are managing your money to start with. The purpose you want to rule your money to provide the lifestyle you have always dreamed. One day at a time, one goal at a time we can have and live our dreams.
Lifestyle is a choice. For example, there’s the jet-setter who travels around the world buying expensive homes, and then there’s the person who doesn’t travel and lives a modest lifestyle. Think about this, if the modest guy wants to travel he may need to change a few things, but would he want to become a jet-setter? Or, if the jet-setter wants to slow down his travelling would he sell his expensive homes and move to the modest neighborhood? The answer to both questions is “no” because lifestyle is what makes you happy, and not what makes someone else happy. Each and every one of us has a different answer if asked what makes us happy. Therefore, we must manage our money in accordance to what we want, and not what someone else wants.
Money management is all about lifestyle. If you focus on the lifestyle you want, you will accumulate money much faster because you have a goal or destination. So, no matter how big or small your lifestyle goal may be, you must have one to live your dream. You must start with the goal (step one – what do you want?), or the whole process of managing your money becomes meaningless. Without the goal or the why, the how never really matters. If you want to take a cruise to Europe and it costs $15,000, how will you manage your money to accomplish the goal. The answer is as individual as the number on people on the planet. The key is defining the objective and then setting out to accomplish it.
To define the lifestyle you want think about what it is that makes you happy. Is it income for retirement, a new home, a new car, giving to charity or travelling? Whatever the mind can conceive and believe it can achieve. Steps One to Nine explain what you need to do to manage your money. Step Ten is the reward of your labor. You will be able to live the lifestyle you want with the money you have because you will be managing it in accordance with your goal. Don’t ever feel pressure from peers or relatives. This is your goal not theirs. Stay focused or they can destroy what you are out to accomplish.
For example, in recent years the cost of housing went through the roof as banks lent everyone money to buy, buy, buy! People saw their neighbors and families moving to nicer neighborhoods because they qualified for jumbo low interest loans, so they jumped on the band wagon and followed them. Sadly, they soon learned they moved too quickly. Their dreams of living a better life were crushed when the housing market fell apart. The lesson learned is to make financial decisions based on you and you alone. Do not be swayed by what others are doing. Think about the family who stayed in the old neighborhood managing their money through all of this. They could probably buy a home beyond their wildest dreams in today’s market! But, if it wasn’t their goal then it isn’t likely their goal now.
So, never give up. Whatever it is you want to do, you can do it if you take control and rule your money versus allowing your money to rule you. KISS (Keep it simple) and be happy living the lifestyle you choose to live!
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A Note From Jim