Too often accepting responsibility for you money isn’t easy to do. Over the years I have joked with investors that the number one reason they hire an advisor, is to have someone to blame. Take the time to think through this process. How much time do you spend involved in the process of managing your money? How often to you meet with your advisor? Do you understand the strategy by which you are managing your money?
First you have to make a decision to accept the responsibility of your money. In talking with investors over the last 28 years this concept of responsibility has become a decision process we walk people through before helping them manage money. The importance of accepting and agreeing to managing your money is vital in the process. This may sound like semantics, but you would be amazed at how many people want to blame others versus accepting the task of successful money management.
It is easy to blame the market or economy for the losing money. The reality is you can lose money in a good market as well as a bad one. Equally you can lose money in a good economy as well as a bad. Stop worrying about the market, economy or whatever else you can blame, the focus has to be on your money and the management strategy you implement.
We avoid responsibility because we lack confidence in ourselves. This is a direct response to not have a plan. If you define what you want. Build a discipline strategy for accomplishing the goal. Learn, practice and rehearse the process. You will have the confidence you need to manage your money!
Don’t get overwhelmed by the magnitude of the task, KISS! Keep it simple to start and learn one day at a time. I find it very much like riding a bike, driving a car or playing a sport – learn, practice and rehearse and you will be riding, driving and playing the way you want to get what you want out of your money.
This all applies to the process buying a house, paying for college education, traveling around the world or any other goal you have for money. Learn how to finance a home and you won’t have to worry about the mortgage broker selling you on the wrong loan. Learn about options versus following a newsletter. Whatever you want that is related to money is easy enough to learn and implement relative to your goals and risk tolerance.
Money ranks and one of the top three most important things in an individuals life. God, Family & Money are the three top rated in surveys. The priority is different for everyone, but one thing is for certain, money plays a key role in every one’s life. Isn’t it time we learn to rule our money versus letting our money rule us? Accept the responsibility – IT’s Your Money – Manage IT!



A Note From Jim